This is a regularly occurring phenomenon.
Please do not ask for help if you do not want it.
Stay evil, stay a loser, stay selfish, stay stupid. But don't ask me for help you aren't interested in receiving. You take an opportunity to share the weight you're bearing and you spit in my face in response to my efforts, and the very real risk of me opening doors within myself that cause pain and take time to handle within my own journey. Causing me to put the full weight of your experience back onto you, to deal with alone.
That's on you.
Some of the wisest words I've ever received: Don't stress yourself like this over anyone who is not your child or your husband. It's just not worth it.
There will be a slower, calmer, KINDER 🥴🥴🥴 version which offers some tips and advice on personal growth, and I will continue to have productive and civil conversations about the subject, but do not take intimate personal time from me just to spit in my fucking face by spouting excuses like I'm your parent or like I have the time to play dumb broken therapist (If I'M going to play therapist, we're going to make progress or GTFO) lol
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